5 Simple Steps So You Can Date During The Coronavirus
Yes, you can date during the Coronavirus. Right now, there are millions of women on dating apps looking for a connection. We're all self-isolating, so if you're looking connect with a woman, it's as good as time as any to dive into a dating app.
Although our world has been turned upside down, you don't have to give up on dating. Here are the steps showing you how to date during the Coronavirus.
1. Join a dating app.
If you want to date during the Coronavirus, you must join a dating app and create a profile. You got plenty of options; Tinder, Match.com, OkCupid, Bumble, Hinge, etc. There are tons of women active on dating apps right now. Yep, even during the Coronavirus.
The first key is the app you should join. Do you want a relationship? Maybe something more casual? It's important to join the right dating app because, depending on the app, women want different things.
Want to know which dating app is ideal for you? Grab my cheat sheet listing the pros and cons of all the major dating apps.
2. Already on a dating app? Do this!
It goes without saying you should put some effort into your dating profile. Women want to see an effort. You should add depth, sharing what's unique about you.
There's a lot of competition vying for a woman's attention, so your bio must stand out. It's easy, introduce yourself, pick 3-5 of your hobbies or passions and write about them in a fun, engaging way.
If you like to cook, share why you like cooking. Give examples of what you cook and provide some depth. Your bio will stand out.
Also, with everything going on right now, it's a good idea to add something about the Coronavirus. Below is an example of my bio on Bumble. Note how it references what's going on right now.
If you can put a smile on a woman's face, you've done your job. It's a great way to break the ice. Women will appreciate it and more than likely contact you because of your humor.
Just be sure to use humor when mentioning the Coronavirus. Don't say, "We're all doomed" or play the blame game and dive into politics. Nobody wants to be lectured, see negativity or see something that puts them on edge.
A well-crafted bio is essential to your success on dating apps. Here are more tips to help you with your dating profile:
3. Reach out and connect.
OK, your profile is up, so now what? Don't just sit there and hope a woman chooses you, swipe right on women, or, if you can, send messages first. Seek out women, young man!
The ideal approach for your icebreaker is mentioning something you see in a woman's bio. OkCupid points out that "talking about specific things that interest you or that you might have in common with someone is a time-honored way to make a connection..."
Right now, it's a great idea to mention the Coronavirus in your icebreaker. Below is an example on Plentyoffish.
For more tips on how to start conversations with women, go here, What Are Good Online Dating First Message Tips For Men?
4. Get off the dating app quickly.
Once you establish some sort of connection, ask for the woman's phone number so you can move off the dating app and make it more personal through talking or texting. You want to avoid staying on the dating app.
The primary reason is the woman you're messaging is receiving messages from other men. Never assume she's only talking to you. It's best to get her off the app, so you can text or talk.
A simple way to know if a woman prefers texting or talking is by asking, "are you a talker or texter?" Women will respond 100% of the time.
Some women prefer talking, while others prefer texting. You MUST respect her choice. Hopefully, you are comfortable and confident enough to do both.
5. Keep the momentum going.
Clearly, with self-quarantine and isolation, you can't meet for a face-to-face date. Talking on the phone is better than texting, but even better is face-to-face chatting.
You have options when it comes to video chat, FaceTime, WhatsApp, Zoom, and Skype, to name a few. Heck, even Bumble lets you chat on video. Women have their preferences, so it's a good idea to install them now. That way, you don't have to waste time setting them up when it's time to chat.
The beauty of this is you can chat having a glass of wine on the couch, while you're walking your dog, cooking a meal, coffee in the morning, etc. I see people recommend watching a movie together where you turn on your phone using FaceTime while each of you watches the same film at each of your houses
Do whatever works. You can have a Skype Date or even play games on your phone.
Video games are certainly an option, but even better are board games. Yep, you can play board games online. A great site is Tabletopiatabletopia. You can play a couple of games for free on your computer
There are a lot of games you can choose. Santorini for the competitive gamer or Sub Terra, a co-op where you are trapped underground and work together to escape. You can even play chess.
If you choose to play a game, make sure you understand the rules and how to navigate the system. You can talk over Skype or your phone and teach the woman how to play. This is a far superior way to interact over watching a Netflix movie together.
Final Thoughts
Well social distancing and staying in all the time, it's a great opportunity to meet someone on a dating app. Yes, you can date during the Coronavirus. Take the initiative. I'm seeing a boost in responses right now because of the Coronavirus.
Who knows how long this period of self-quarantine will last. Why not connect with someone during it? You'll have someone to talk to, laugh, and share how you feel with what's going on.
You might just meet that special person you've been looking for.
Stay safe!