Science Has Discovered The Penis Size Women Want The Most

Here’s a shocker; penis size DOES matter to women.  A recent study found women have a preference for a BIGGER penis for a one-night stand but are open to an average penis size for a long-term relationship.

A recent study used 3D models made out of blue rubber and let the women choose their optimal size for a fling and relationship.  Previous studies would typically use “vague descriptions” of a penis size for women to choose from or have women choose from 3 sizes using descriptions (small, medium, and large) for example.  This study used actual blue rubber penises.

The Study

The study, Women’s Preferences for Penis Size: A New Research Method Using Selection among 3D Models, set out to look at at the preferences of women for “erect penis sizes” in different relationship contexts.

75 women participated in the study. Each woman filled out a questionnaire which included questions regarding their ethnicity, sexual orientation, number of sexual partners, whether penis size was important, etc…

The women were also asked their preferences in penis size by choosing a “model” based on 33 possible model sizes.

The women were asked to select the penis model that they believed:

• Best reflected the average penis size of men
• Which penis size is most likely to carry a sexually transmitted infection
• Which size penis she would prefer for different types of relationships (long-term vs. a fling).

The questions about preferences for different types of partners were a bit more complex. For one-time partners, each woman was asked:

“Imagine you’re single and you’re out at a restaurant with some friends. You meet an attractive man who is also single. He seems kind, intelligent, funny, and has a great job. You are feeling sexually aroused. He says he’s in town for a conference but he has to fly back home tomorrow afternoon. If you could spend only this one night with him, what size would you want him to be?”

For long-term partners, each woman was asked: “What would be the ideal size for a husband or serious, long-term boyfriend?”

Results

27% of the women reported that they had ended a relationship due to a “mismatch” between their penis size preference and their partner’s penis size. This means the women ended it because their partner failed to “measure up” to their personal preference.

When their partner failed to “measure up”, 75% were because their partner’s penis was too small while 25% were because it was too big.  Women preferred larger penises for one-time partners with the average length being 6.4 inches with a girth of 5.0 inches.

For long-term partners, women preferred slightly smaller penises with the average length being 6.3 inches and a girth of 4.8 inches. It’s worth noting the average penis size is 5.6 inches in the United States so the choice for long-term partners was well above the national average.

Lastly, while most women declined to identify a penis size most likely to carry an STD, women selected even larger penis sizes as the most likely to be infected with an STD.

Final Thoughts

Is it any shock that women prefer men who are more “endowed” when it comes to a fling? Certainly not.  It’s interesting that women preferred penises that are larger than “average” for relationships.  What is of note is that the study confirmed that girth is as important as length.

Please leave a comment below because I’d like to hear what you think about the study and its findings.

Science Looks At Why Women Fake Orgasms

Do you wonder why women fake orgasms? Well, a study dived head first into the topic to figure out what drives women to fake it. And that’s not all.

The study also found a few more interesting things that you may not be aware of; including how often women fake it during sex. So if you’ve ever wondered if your lady is faking it, read on.

Female Orgasm Study

The study, Evidence to Suggest that Copulatory Vocalizations in Women Are Not a Reflexive Consequence of Orgasm, set out to investigate female “vocalizations” during sex and their relationship to orgasms.

“Vocalizations” meaning a variety of noises including moaning, groaning, saying words, saying their partner’s name, yelling out “yes” or “more”, or giving their partner instructions….you get the idea.

71 women participated in the study. Each woman had experienced and orgasm at some point in their life. The women were between 18 – 48 years old.

Each woman completed a questionnaire that consisted of questions such as their relationship status, sexual history, methods by which their orgasm was achieved(self-masturbation, oral sex, intercourse, etc..), frequency of their orgasms, when the orgasms occurred(foreplay, intercourse, before partner orgasms, etc…) among other things.

The women were also asked how often they made the above mentioned “variety of noises” during sexual intercourse.

Study Results

100% of the women said they had experienced an orgasm when “engaging in a variety of sexual activities” however, not all methods were always used. For example, a lot of women shared that their partner didn’t manually “stimulate them.”

25.3% of the women said they made noises like they were going to orgasm when they weren’t actually going to do so over 90% of the time, 56.2% of the women made noises when they weren’t going to have an orgasm over 70% of the time, and 79.1% of the women did the same, faking it over 50% of the time.

That’s right, nearly 80% of the women fake orgasms HALF the time they had sex.

The reasons the women fake orgasms and made noises were:

66% of the women said they did so to speed up their partner’s orgasm. The reasons varied from boredom, fatigue, and discomfort/pain, as well as because of time.

Interestingly 92% of the women felt “very strongly” that their vocalizations boosted their partner’s self-esteem and 87% of the women indicated they were vocal during sex for this very reason.

Finally, 68% of the women responded positively that they would stay with a partner even if they never reached an orgasm.

Final Thoughts

So what makes women fake orgasms? In the end, the studies revealed that the majority of orgasms for women were the result of “self-manipulation” and the least amount of orgasms were due to “vaginal penetration.”

While most orgasms for women happened during foreplay, the noises that women use to show they are having an orgasm were while the man was having an orgasm. This shows that there’s at least some element of “conscious control” giving the women an opportunity to “manipulate male behavior to their advantage.”

So, those screams of passion women have may just be because they’re trying to boost your confidence, or even worse….they’re bored. Yikes!



Be sure to leave your comments below regarding the findings of why women fake orgasms.

The Answer To How Much Sex Is Enough For Happiness

Does having MORE sex make you happier?

Can you ever get enough sex?

Is there actually a point when sex isn’t good for you?

Are people who have a lot of sex happier?

A recent study, Sexual Frequency Predicts Greater Well-Being, But More is Not Always Better, found the answer to how much sex is enough to be happy and it may surprise you.

Just The Facts

Most people think the more sex you have the happier you become. And why wouldn’t people think that right?

Sex makes you feel happy so the more sex you have, the happier you are right?

But this isn’t always the case.

It’s one thing if you are single but another for people who are married, with kids, careers, and busy lives that it may be harder to make time for sex.

One study had couples double their frequency of sex while another group was asked to maintain their current sexual frequency. The study found there was no increase in happiness for the couples who doubled their sexual activity.

That study theorized that since the couples were already having sex, they possibly had maximized the benefits for their well-being.

Which brings us to 3 studies I want to share with you today which gave insight into how much sex is enough to be happy.

Across The Board Study

The first study comprised of over 25,000 participants (men and women) and each person rated variables such as how often they had sex the past “12 months” and how happy they were. Relationship status was also measured.

The study found an association between sexual frequency and happiness, however, that frequency maxed out at once a week.

Looking at the graph below, you can see the studies findings, there is no link between happiness and having sex more than once a week.

Relationship Study

The second study looked at people who were in relationships.

The study found sexual frequency had a “positive association with satisfaction with life.”

The study also found that there was NO association with happiness and sexual frequency greater than once a week.

For people having sex once a week or less, there WAS a significant association between sexual frequency and satisfaction with life.

Married Couples Study

The third study looked at married couples.

Over 2,400 couples participated in the study.

Similar to the previous studies, there was a positive association between sexual frequency and happiness when the couples had sex at least once a week.

Anything more there was NO association

Final Thoughts

The studies clearly have merit. Over 30,000 people participated so that gives the study credence.

But….

Everyone has their personal sex drive.

Some people need it more than once a week….others are content with once a week.

How much sex is enough for you to be happy may have a scientific answer, but it comes down to your personal preference.

Make sure you’re on the same level of your partner or neither of you will be happy in the long run.



Leave your comments below. I want to hear your thoughts about how much sex is enough. How much do you think is enough?

Men Are Stupid With Condom Use With Hot Women

Think about the HOTTEST woman you’ve ever met and never had the chance to sleep with.

I’m talking about the type of woman who just the thought of her turns you on like no woman ever has.

It could be someone you work with, someone from your gym, someone you saw at a bar, a friend of a friend.

The point is, she’s the hottest woman on Earth.

Imagine if you took her home and ended up in your bedroom. You know where this is headed.

Kissing, passion, clothes come off….then….

Would you think of putting on a condom at that moment? Probably not.

The reason I ask is because a new study has found men are stupid when it comes to choosing to use a condom or not with a hot woman.

What do I mean, you ask?

When a guy is given the opportunity to have sex with a HOT woman, a high percentage wouldn’t use a condom.

Yup, a new study confirms this.

The study, Does attractiveness influence condom use intentions in heterosexual men? An experimental study, analyzed the relationship between “perceived attractiveness and condom use intentions” in men.

Study Experiment

51 men between the ages of 18-69 participated in the study.

The men were asked to rate the attractiveness of 20 women on the basis of a single black and white photo of the woman’s face.

The men were asked a series of questions including; “If you were single, how likely would you be to have sex with this woman should the opportunity arise?” and “If you were single and you were to have sex with this woman, how likely is it that you would use a condom?”

Study Results

The findings were that the men were more willing to have sex with the most attractive women (DUH!) and were also more willing to have condomless sex with the women.

The study also found that the hotter the girl was, the more confident the men were in their ability to think they could detect if she had a sexually transmitted infection (STI).

Basically, the men thought the hotter the girl, the less likely the risk of catching an STI and the men were less likely to discuss STI topics with them.

Participants were more willing to have sex with attractive women but were less inclined to use condoms when they do so.

Apparently, men believe that attractive women take care of themselves more than less attractive women do, and therefore are healthier and pose less of a health risk.

Yup, men are stupid.

Final Thoughts

OK, maybe saying men are stupid is a little extreme.

But clearly we let the “little head” think for the “big head.” The study only confirmed this.

So, think twice if you find yourself in a situation with a very attractive woman.

Just because she’s hot, doesn’t mean she doesn’t have an STI.



Feel free to share your thoughts below about how men are stupid when it comes to hot women.

Overview of Male Sex Dreams

Men think about sex often. How often? One study found men think about sex once or twice an hour. That seems right.

But how often do men dream about sex?

A couple of studies give insight into male sex dreams. The results were very surprising.

Male Sex Dreams Study #1

In the first study, Sex dreams, wet dreams, and nocturnal emissions, 58 male college students filled a questionnaire which included a list of sexual activities that they could indicate they had dreamed about in the past.

The list included “kissing lips, foreplay, vaginal intercourse, oral intercourse, and anal intercourse.”

The students were asked if they had “ejaculated during a dream” and whether or not the “ejaculation was in response to a dream image.”

Here are the results of the first study:

Common Male Sex Dreams
Vaginal Intercourse with a Woman – 83%
Kissing a woman – 78%
Foreplay with a female teacher – 36%

Strange Sex Dreams
Kissing an alien/monster/ghost – 5%
Kissing a plant/rock/animal – 3%

Wet Dreams Sexy Stars
Female stranger – 27%
Adult video actress or celebrity – 18%

Other Findings Regarding Male Sex Dreams:
95% of respondents dreamed about sex with a woman, with the most common forms of sexual act being foreplay and vaginal intercourse.

Most respondents reported that they dreamed of vaginal intercourse with a woman about 9 times a year.

80% of respondents reported having had a wet dream at least once.

Men dreamed about women who were complete strangers the most, of which 1/3 were teachers.

Men dreamed about their mothers 10% of the time.

Nearly 12% of heterosexual participants dreamed about engaging in various types of homosexual activities.

Male Sex Dreams Study #2

The second study examined the sleeping position and the relationship with erotic dreams.

670 college students (34% male, 66% female) were asked about their dreams; how often they had dreams, the types of dreams, and the intensity of the dreams.

The students were also asked how often they sleep in different positions, including on their front, back, and side.

The majority of participants (71%) reported having one dominant sleeping position. For most (72%), this was sleeping on their side. The rest reported sleeping on their backs (23%) or on their stomachs (5%).

Erotic dreams were unrelated to sleeping on one’s back or side; however, they were linked to sleeping on one’s stomach.

The more frequently people slept on their stomachs, the more likely they were to report dreams about sex and about being nude. Also, sleeping on one’s stomach was also related to dreams of being locked up or tied up, being smothered, as well as seeing UFOs.

Why was sleeping face down linked to having more frequent sex dreams? The study couldn’t say with certainty; however, the author of the study believes that this position creates some amount of physical pressure on the genitals and that this is being transferred into people’s dreams, thereby making them more likely to be erotic in nature.

The author of the study also theorized that because sleeping on one’s stomach can put pressure on the chest and potentially make breathing difficult, these sensations might be converted to dreams about being confined or suffocated.

Final Thoughts

The results of these studies are interesting. Fantasies about sex with strangers, kissing an alien or kissing a rock, for example, either show the wide array of desires men have, or how messed up men can be. I’m not a psychologist so I can’t say.

But dreaming about kissing a rock? I don’t understand that.

I found it surprising that men only dream about sex with a woman, on average, 9 times a year. That seems so low given how often men think about sex when they are awake.

Now the fantasy about teachers , I get it. We can thank Van Halen for that.

Please leave a comment below because I’d like to hear what you think about Male Sex Dreams.

Relieve Headaches with Orgasms

“Not Tonight Honey I have a Headache”.

If a woman ever says that statement to you, you can respond that an orgasm is an effective way to relieve headaches and it’s just what the doctor ordered.

According to a study, Orgasm and Migraine an orgasm can relieve headaches.

An orgasm helped relieve migraines in about half the subjects in the study.

Orgasms and Headaches Study

83 women were questioned as to whether they had had sexual intercourse during their headache.

57 of the participants had sex. 10 (17.5%) were pain-free and another 30% had some relief. Combined, both had nearly 50% of some sort of headache relief.

Of the remainder, only 3 patients (5.3%) had headaches that were worse after an orgasm.

The study pointed out that any treatment for headaches will be compared with triptans. Triptans, which are drugs used to treat migraines, are effective 80% to 85% of the time. The fastest drug would produce relief in 10 to 20 minutes in some patients and relief in some patients within 1 hour in 75% of the patients.

However, an orgasm provides instant relief.

An orgasm is significantly less effective than drugs, but when an orgasm is effective, the onset of relief is faster.

Conclusion

Does an orgasm provide headache relief?

WHO CARES!

Ok, seriously, it can provide relief for women.

The study only dealt with women but the study noted that there is “anecdotal information suggesting that relief with sexual orgasm may occur in men”.

In fact, one of the authors of the study had an example of a 52 year old man who had a 25 year history of migraine headaches. The headaches could last all day and were dulled by over-the-counter medications. If he had an orgasm, the headache would go away within minutes.

Personally, if I have a hangover or a headache I find an orgasm works wonders. It provides instant headache relief and is cheaper than Ibuprofen.

So remember guys, you have the ability to relieve headaches. Be sure to point to the study if a woman ever hands you that line.

Photo courtesy of Nerve.com

Phone App Lists The States That Have The Longest Sex

In a previous blog post I showed the the top 10 countries for male stamina.

The United States ranked second in the world.

But….

Which state in the U.S. has the longest sex?

Spreadsheets App Measures Longest Sex

The Spreadsheets app, which the official site says has been “downloaded in 150 countries” is an iPhone app that maintains a track record of your sexual history based on movement and audio.

The Spreadsheets app will measure how long you have sex, the number of thrusts, how loud you are, and allow you to set and track goals. It even has sexual “achievements”.

Sorry Android users, at this time the Spreadhseets app is only available for the iPhone.

How Longest Sex Duration Was Calculated

5,000 Spreadsheets users sexual data was analyzed across the United States.

Over 23,000 incidents of sex were used to complete the list to determine which state had the longest sex.

Note that the time below didn’t include foreplay; it was purely sexual intercourse.

States Ranked By Longest Sex Duration

1. New Mexico (7:01)

2. West Virginia (5:38)

3. Idaho (5:11)

4. South Carolina (4:48)

5. Missouri (4:22)

6. Michigan (4:14)

7. Utah (3:55)

8. Oregon (3:51)

9. Nebraska (3:47)

10. Alabama (3:38)

11. Delaware (3:33)

12. Hawaii (3:28)

13. Wisconsin (3:22)

14. North Dakota (3:18)

15. Arizona (3:17)

16. Maryland (3:15)

17. Mississippi (3:10)

18. Rhode Island (3:09)

19. Connecticut (3:07)

20. Texas (3:06)

21. New Hampshire (3:04)

22. Wyoming (3:03)

23. New York (3:01)

24. Pennsylvania (2:58)

25. Maine (2:58)

26. Washington (2:51)

27. Iowa (2:50)

28. Illinois (2:49)

29. North Carolina (2:47)

30. Tennessee (2:46)

31. Kansas (2:38)

32. California (2:38)

33. Massachusetts (2:31)

34. Florida (2:29)

35. New Jersey (2:28)

36. Indiana (2:26)

37. Virginia (2:23)

38. Oklahoma (2:21)

39. Colorado (2:21)

40. Minnesota (2:19)

41. Ohio (2:18)

42. Louisiana (2:17)

43. Kentucky (2:14)

44. Arkansas (2:08)

45. District of Columbia (2:08)

46. Nevada (2:07)

47. Georgia (2:07)

48. Montana (2:03)

49. Vermont (1:48)

50. South Dakota (1:30)

51. Alaska (1:21)

Conclusion

Where does your state rank for longest sex duration?  Here in California we are in the middle of the pack at 32.

Do you exceed your states ranking or fall below it?  Would you even consider using this app or have you used it?

I consider this app more of a “fun” or “gag” type of thing I suppose.  At what point during sex you would whip out your iPhone to start the app?  Nothing says class like grabbing your iPhone to start the app right before you have sex and stopping it immediately after you are finished.

Feel free to share your thoughts below

Women With Wide Hips Have More Sex

Forget the smile, forget the eyes, and forget everything you thought you knew about women before about which women are looking to hook up. 

Look at a woman’s curves for the clue to a one night stand! 

That’s right, if you are looking for the type of women who are likely to have sex with you, chose women with wide hips. 

No, this is not the commonly known “waist to hip ratio”; I’m talking about the width of a woman’s hips. 

Hip Width and Sexual Behavior Study

Studies by the University of Leeds in the United Kingdom found that women with wider hips (14.2 inches or more between the pelvis bones) are more likely to have had a higher number of sexual partners than women with hips under 12.2 inches.

Take note; 75% of those encounters were one night stands! 

The study into whether hip width or waist-to-hip ratio was a better predictor of a woman’s sexual behavior was conducted among 148 women aged between 18 and 26 years old. The participants all had at least one sexual partner previously and also completed a questionnaire about their sexual histories. 

Why Do Women With Wide Hips Have More Sex?

Does it matter?  

OK, seriously, the trend is believe to be evolutionary; the researchers suspect that women with wider hips are more likely to engage in sex because the birth process is generally easier and less traumatic for them than for smaller hipped women.  

Limitations On Study

Some people are skeptical of the study due to the small sample size and I agree. I’ve read enough studies to know that 148 people isn’t really a conclusive amount but I don’t think this should stop you.

A noted anthropologist from New Mexico State University, Wenda Trevathan, said “In order for this to really be supported, somebody has got to test this same kind of thing in a lot of populations”.

Get Out Meet Wide Hipped Women

Now you know. When you are looking for a woman to date, look for women with wide hips. The study may not be really conclusive yet but hell, what do you have to lose?

No, don’t bring a measuring tape. Use your table as a clue. If the woman is half as wide as the table the odds are in your favor.

So, if you are at a bar, and see she meets that criteria, take a chance. The risk is well worth the reward.

I am not a Shakira fan but I will be damned, she may have been right; Hips don’t lie!

The Average Male Stamina Broken Down By Country

A mobile app discovered the average male stamina for the United States which is 3 minutes 45 seconds.  The app even created a global top 10 list of the average stamina for guys worldwide.

Now I have read it all.  There are apps for exercise, diet, how many steps you take a day, sleep patterns….now and your sex life?  This app analyzed the sex duration of men.  Yes, you heard it right; Sex Duration.

App That Measures Male Stamina

The mobile app Spreadsheets, which as of 2018 doesn’t exist anymore, monitored men’s performance in bed to provide statistical and historical feedback.   The app used a phones accelerometer (a built-in electronic component that measures tilt and motion) and speakers to provide statistical feedback about a man’s duration, thrust, and decibel peak in bed.

In a nutshell, this thing monitors how long a guy lasts in bed.

You Gotta Do What?

The first thing I want to know is who the hell used this?  If you have a hot girl in front of you are you going to say “Hold on, let me get my iPhone, I need to turn on my sex tracking app”.

You have to have some set of cojones to pull this off, fellas.  You could even SHARE your results on social media.

I thought this was a joke when I first read it but it’s very real.  Unfortunately, the app was only available for the iPhone so I couldn’t download it as I have a droid.  Poor me.

Top 10 Countries For Male Stamina

The Spreadsheets app compiled data and the top 10 most sexually active countries.  According to the “Spreadsheets” app, Americans rank second in the world in male stamina.  The United States comes in at 3 minutes and 45 seconds.

Here is the official list from Spreadsheet:

1.  Australia 4:02
2.  The United States 3:45
3.  Canada 3:41
4.  Russia 3:31
5.  Mexico 3:23
6.  Spain 3:22
7.  United Kingdom 2:56
8.  France 2:53
9.  Italy 2:50
10.  China 2:40

Who Used “Spreadsheet”?

Spreadsheet, which is no longer around, provided an interesting way to measure how long men last in bed.  I don’t know how “scientific” the results of their findings were but it’s worth noting I suppose.

I’m curious about the experiences people had with this app and when exactly did they start the timer.  When they started kissing or as soon as they start well, you know…. 🙂  Oh, and I really want to see how someone shared their results on Facebook or other social media.