How To Make A Good First Impression On A Date With Women

So you have a date with a woman you met off your dating site. The next hurdle is making a good first impression on a date with that girl.

The first date is critical so it’s important you don’t screw it up. You get no “do overs” in dating. All too often men blow it

So if you are looking to make a good first impression a date with women, follow these 5 tips! Ignore them at your own risk!

1. Be On Time

If you want to make a good first impression on a date, show up on time. Never show up late.

There’s no such thing as arriving “fashionably late” to a first date. Don’t do it.

If you aren’t willing to show up on time what do you think that says to women about the effort you will put into a relationship? Actions speak louder than words!

Yes, stuff happens. Maybe there’s an accident, or traffic is bad, or you have to stay at work later for some reason. Maybe you have a personal emergency.

If you are going to be late, CALL her and let her know you’re running late. Don’t just show up late. Tacky.

I would also suggest meeting her in front of the location of your date. You don’t want her to have to navigate through a crowded bar to meet you.

2. Be Confident

According to Match.com, 84% of women will “routinely watch you for your confidence level.”

Sit straight and don’t slouch. Look her in the eye. Be assertive. Don’t be wishy-washy. If she challenges you, stand your ground.

There’s a difference between cocky and confident; be sure you know the difference.

Don’t let your eyes wander when that hot waitress walks by you. Your date should be 100% of your focus when meeting.

And remember, smile for goodness sake.

3. Keep the Phone In Your Pocket

Don’t put your phone on the table nor check it while around your date. Keep your phone in your pocket and be sure it’s on silent.

It’s disrespectful to check your phone while on your date.

Imagine how you’d feel if you were having a good time then your date kept whipping out her phone and checking it. How would you feel? Not so good I think.

If you must, put it on vibrate and put your phone in your pocket. You can check your phone when you go to the restroom; like most of us do.

4. Dress To Impress

Match.com found nearly 70% of women will judge if you’re a suitable mate by how you dress. So if you want to make a really good first impression on a date, be presentable.

You don’t have to be dressed to the nines but you should clean up well.

If you need help ask a female friend or simply look at sites like Men’s Health or Askmen.com. They have plenty of tips for men on how to dress.

Keep it classy. Keep it simple. Nothing extreme. This isn’t the time to wear loud colors that scream “I need attention.”

5. Avoid Negativity

Keep your date light and positive.

Don’t talk about exes. Bad dates. Horrible experiences online. In fact, don’t bring up anything negative. For example, you don’t want to go on a rant about politics even if she shares your political beliefs.

If something is important to you, you should know those facts going into the date. For example, if you’re a hardcore Republican and would never date a Democrat, you should know this beforehand otherwise, you run the risk of the date blowing up and you’re just wasting your time.

Now, you can’t control what someone else asks. If your date brings up something that you disagree with there’s no need to escalate the topic but do stand your ground. And definitely, don’t compromise who you are and be agreeable just to appease your date. That never works.

Focus on the positive aspects that you’ve read in her profile. Bring topics up you read on her dating profile. and you’ll make a very good first impression on a date with any women because you showed you took the time to read through her profile.

Final Thoughts

You want to me a good first impression otherwise, your first date may be your last date. You certainly don’t want that.

Although it may seem like common sense, most guys fail to follow the 5 tips above and in the process ruin their chances.

Be on time, show some confidence, keep your phone in your pocket, be presentable and remain positive. You’ll be good if you follow these tips.

And remember, it’s just a date so relax. Don’t sweat it. Have fun and you’ll be just fine.



What are your thoughts about making a good first impression on a date? Anything you’d like to add? I would love to hear what you have to say.