5 Conversation Topics For Hinge That Keep Women Engaged
The best conversation topics for Hinge include asking a woman about her favorite weekend activities, her plans for the week, and focusing on her profile traits. It's easy to keep the momentum going in your conversation by using these topics.
This post shares 5 tips for conversation topics on Hinge. If you struggle, asking one of the questions on this post can re-ignite a conversation (or keep it moving forward).
1. Ask a woman's favorite weekend activities.
One of the best conversation topics for Hinge is digging into a woman's interests beyond her profile. The easiest way to do this is by asking a woman what she enjoys doing on the weekend.
This is a great way to discover more layers about the woman you're messaging. Hopefully, she'll give you topics that allow you to extend the conversation.
A good conversation tip for Hinge is asking women about their favorite weekend activities.
In the message above, the woman shares several activities I can follow up on in the conversation. I could dive into the games she watches, activities she enjoys outside, or the book she's reading right now.
You can see the benefit of asking a woman about her favorite activities. This is an excellent conversation tip to add to your arsenal.
Lastly, after sharing their interests, women will typically ask you about your weekend activities - which the woman above does. When answering, share cool, fun things you engage in that women enjoy as well.
2. Ask a woman about the past weekend.
A great tip for extending conversation on Hinge is asking a woman about the past weekend. Obviously, this approach is best used on a Sunday afternoon/evening - Monday at the latest.
Women will typically share several activities they did on the weekend. This allows you to extend the conversation by focusing on an activity and asking about it.
Asking about the past weekend is a great way to get women to share more about themselves. Plus, it shows women you're interested in getting to know them at a deeper level.
Y Share the fun activities you did on the weekend. This makes the conversation more engaging and not one-sided.
Asking about the past weekend is a great way to extend a conversation with women on Hinge.
3. Ask a woman about her upcoming week.
Another great tip for your conversations on Hinge is asking a woman about her upcoming week. Similar to the previous message, this approach is best used on weekends or Mondays.
You're aiming for the woman to include a few things so you can cherry-pick a topic to dive into. Show curiosity by asking about a topic a woman mentions she's doing this week.
It's a good idea to share something fun you're doing this weekend. You don't want to appear boring, so avoid saying you have nothing going on.
Add how you're trying a new sushi place on Wednesday or going to happy hour with friends to watch the basketball game Tuesday night. Show women you have a life outside work.
Also, avoid talking about your job. Work should only be mentioned as a last resort because it's simply not that exciting
A great tip is asking a woman about her upcoming week.
4. Ask a woman where she's from or what brought her to your city/state.
One approach I like to fall back on is asking a woman where she's from. You can also ask a woman why she moved to your city/state.
Asking a woman about her hometown is a good way to dig into her background. I've never had a single woman avoid answering this question, which is why it's an effective conversation tip.
Even better if the woman recently moved to your area. It opens the door to suggesting little-known cool spots or things to do in your city.
The great thing about this approach is nearly 100% of women will ask you the same question after telling you why they moved to your city. This shows she's curious about getting to know you, plus it keeps the conversation rolling.
Keep the momentum going by asking a woman where she's from.
5. Look at the Virtues/Vitals/Vices sections.
If you're struggling to find topics to discuss in your conversation, look at a woman's profile settings on Hinge. These can be a gold mine for extending a conversation:
- My Vitals
- My Virtues
- My Vices
I recommend looking at these traits specifically. You can use each trait to keep a conversation going strong.
- Pets - Whenever I see a woman is a dog owner, I ask about the type of dog she has and the dog's name.
- Social drinker - I like asking a woman her favorite types of drinks.
- School - Did you attend the same college? Bring this up in the conversation.
- Hometown - If you're from the same town as the woman, mention it in the conversation.
- Work/Job Title - Use this as a last resort. Asking about work isn't an ideal way to extend a conversation, but if you're struggling, it's OK to fall back on this trait.
The examples above are there to give you a reference to help keep the momentum going in a conversation. Take a glance and these sections on Hinge and craft unique approaches if you desire.
Stay away from politics, drugs, religion, and kids. These are not the best topics to extend a conversation with women.
Browse a woman's profile traits for way to keep a conversation going.
Final Thoughts
It's easy to keep conversations going strong with women on Hinge. The tips above will help balance out your conversations on the app.
Pay attention to a woman's responses to your questions. You'll not only get to know her better but can use her answers to expand the conversation.
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