What's A Good Message To Start Conversations With Women On Zoosk
It's easy to start conversations with women on Zoosk. Use the right approach and getting responses from women is a piece of cake. Most men write boring non-engaging messages and ultimately fail to capture women’s attention. The best way to get a response from a woman on Zoosk is commenting on something in her profile.
That’s right, there’s no need to use a "copy and paste" message on Zoosk. Reading a woman’s profile and commenting on something in her written section is the best way to start conversations with women on Zoosk (or any dating site).
It starts with your dating profile on Zoosk
The first thing you must have to be successful on Zoosk is a well-written dating profile with good photos. Regardless of how great your opening message is on Zoosk, if your profile shows a lack of effort or you use bad pictures, you won’t stand a chance.
Here are a few tips to help you with your Zoosk dating profile:
OkCupid discovered the key to get responses
As I mentioned in this blog post, 3 Good Conversation Starters for Online Dating Messages To Women, OkCupid discovered men who used the following phrases in their messages received the most responses from women:
- "You Mention"
- "Good Taste"
- "Noticed That"
OkCupid analyzed over 500,000 emails and found when a guy’s message somehow showed he read the woman’s dating profile; she would respond at a higher level over men who commented on photos or used messages such as "hey" or "hello."
This should come as no surprise because women want to know you’re actually interested in getting to know them beyond a photo or canned opening.
How to start conversations with women on Zoosk
If you want to get responses to your messages on Zoosk, read a woman’s dating profile and craft your message based on something in her profile. It's that easy. Anything a woman shares is fair game. You can find conversation starters in a woman's "her story," "ideal date," or "interests" sections of her Zoosk profile.
Obviously, you don’t want to write messages that are lazy ("hi," "hello," "how’s your day") and I recommend staying away from photos (that’s the approach most men use aside from the aforementioned lazy messages).
Examples of first messages on Zoosk
Here are a couple of examples showing how to start conversations on Zoosk. In this example, I focus on this woman's comment of how she was "born in a big sea port city."
I use the phrase "you mention" in my message and bring up her comment of being in a "port city.":
"Hello, you mention you're from a big port city. Which one? How long have you been in San Diego?"
Pretty basic message, right? The end result is the woman responds.
The phrase "you mention" shows you read a woman's profile resulting in a higher response rate.
In this next example, the woman didn't share much. You can see below she uses the cliches "best friend" and "partner in crime," but the fact she shares she wants a "travel buddy" shows she enjoys traveling.
I zero in on the "travel buddy" comment to start a conversation.
With my topic of "traveling" selected, I use the phrase "you mention" to create this message:
"You mention you like to travel. Where is your next adventure? I would take anywhere that has a beach, warm water, and cold drinks."
The message shows I read her profile and I asked where she wants to travel as well as sharing a bit about myself. The woman responded to my message, and I have started a conversation.
In this next example, the woman had very little written on her profile, so I looked at her "Music Interests" and saw she likes Metallica. I chose the woman's inclusion of Metallica on her profile to start a conversation.
With the topic of Metallica, I used the phrase "I noticed" and "good taste" to craft my message:
"Hello, I noticed that you like Metallica. You clearly have good taste in music. Are they your favorite group? The Beatles are mine."
You can see below the woman, Adriana, replied to my message and asked me questions, which is always a good sign.
Starting conversations with women on Zoosk is simple!
You can see in the screenshots below that the phrase help start conversations. All it takes is finding something interesting on a woman's profile to get a response.
In this example, I use the phrase "I see" which has the same effect as the phrases "noticed that" and "you mention" because it conveys the same thing; that I read her dating profile.
What if a woman has a blank profile on Zoosk?
If a woman has an empty dating profile call her out on it. If you have a well-written dating profile, this will work. Women will look at your dating profile when you send them a message, so it's critical to have a quality dating profile when doing this.
In this example, I used the phrase "noticed that" to show this woman I at least, attempted to read her profile, but it was blank and asked her to give me a little insight into her life.
And guess what? She responded to my message.
Final Thoughts
Getting responses from women on Zoosk is not difficult. You need a good dating profile and messages which show you read their dating profile.
Commenting on a woman’s dating profile shows her you are interested in getting to know her at a deeper level beyond canned opening lines and her looks. Use the phrases above as a basis for your messages.
You’ll start more conversations with women on Zoosk using the strategy.