The Answer to Likes or Messages on Hinge to Women
Should men send likes or messages on Hinge? The answer is always to send a message to women because it makes a more memorable first impression on them.
Messages are an excellent way to kickstart a conversation with women, helping avoid the awkwardness of waiting for the other person to make the first move. Women like men to make the first move, so never hesitate to send a message.
This post answers whether men should send likes or messages on Hinge. I share five reasons you should always send an icebreaker to them.
1. Likes are low-effort.
You may think likes are a great way to show interest in a woman, but they are superficial and never as good as an icebreaker. Likes come across as laziness and show a complete lack of effort to women.
Likes require zero thought or effort because all you're doing is clicking a button to show interest. There's no creativity in a like, and you won't stand out.
Below is an example of a woman's inbox on Hinge. Note how many men send likes instead of an icebreaker.
Likes don't help you stand out.
By sending a like without a message, you miss the chance to express your personality, interests, and what you find intriguing about a woman. If you choose to send a like, it's a missed opportunity to grab a woman's attention.
2. A message shows genuine interest.
Sending an icebreaker shows that you're genuinely interested in a woman and willing to try to connect. It shows initiative in starting a conversation with a woman.
Creating an icebreaker requires more effort than simply tapping a button to like a woman's profile. A like is superficial, but an icebreaker shows that you're looking for substance.
When you send a message, you show that you've put some thought into it and are interested in getting to know the woman. You're also giving them a chance to get to know you better.
Pro Tip: Focus on a woman's prompt when starting a conversation. For tips on starting conversations on Hinge, go here: The Best Funny Conversation Starters On Hinge (With Screenshots)
3. An icebreaker makes you stand out.
Women are bombarded with likes on Hinge, making it difficult for a guy to grab their attention. A well-thought-out message can make you stand out and be memorable.
The action of sending a message signals to women you're actively expressing interest in them. While most men take the easy way out by sending a like, you're taking the initiative, which appeals to them.
A good message is more engaging and leaves a positive first impression. When sending a message, you're more likely to receive a response compared to a simple like.
A good opener helps you stand out on Hinge.
4. You show confidence when sending a message.
Sending a message instead of a like shows supreme confidence, and everyone knows women love confident men. You're putting yourself out there and not afraid to take a chance.
Sending a message involves a degree of risk because you're making yourself vulnerable to rejection. It takes courage to send a message to someone you don't know, especially if you're attracted to the person.
Sending an icebreaker shows you're confident in yourself and don't hide behind sending likes. It shows you're comfortable with yourself and what you have to offer a woman.
5. A message can showcase your personality.
A like doesn't allow you to express yourself to women on Hinge - it's boring, non-engaging, and bland. A good icebreaker gives women a better sense of who you are.
Women can get a sense of your energy and vibe through your icebreaker. Here are things you can showcase in an opener to them:
- Humor - Witty remarks or playful banter are great ways to grab a woman's attention.
- Curiosity - You demonstrate an engaging and inquisitive personality by asking questions. Focus on a photo or something in a woman's prompt.
- Shared interests - If you have common interests, mention them to create a connection. For example, if a woman enjoys hiking, mention your favorite trail to show your active side.
- Playful teasing - Lightly tease a woman in a playful and friendly manner.
- Be creative - Think outside the box when it comes to your icebreaker. Ask imaginative and open-ended questions that encourage thought-provoking answers. For example, "What's your dream vacation?"
- Share a compliment - Avoid physical compliments. Instead, compliment a woman based on something unique from her profile.
- Ask a question about her profile - Be specific and interesting. Avoid generic openers.
- Offer a unique observation. Mention something you noticed in a woman's profile that's uncommon or intriguing.
No matter what approach you choose, make sure that it is genuine and reflects your personality. A good icebreaker allows you to express your personality, humor, and interests more effectively than a like to women.
A friendly opener can start a conversation on Hinge.
Final Thoughts
Should you send likes or a message on Hinge to women? Always send a message because it's the perfect way to make a first impression on the app.
Most men take the easy approach and send likes, which is a huge blunder. Crafting an icebreaker helps you stand out and grab a woman's attention, resulting in more matches.
For more tips on Hinge, visit my one-stop resource for your profile and conversation starters: The Ultimate Hinge Resource Page.