Get A Glimpse Into A Woman’s Inbox on POF

If you’ve ever wondered why women don’t respond to your messages, you may be guilty of one of these mistakes.

Today’s your lucky day because I’m going to show you what a woman’s inbox looks like. And believe me, it’s NOT pretty.

My friend Lisa, who is very attractive, has told me often how frustrating it is for her to find a “good guy” on dating sites. She routinely just quits and gives up but always comes back hoping that some guy catches her eye.

I wanted to see what type of messages men send her in an effort to understand what’s it like for a good looking woman on a dating site.

So, she came over to my house one day, logged into POF and she received the messages below in 6 minutes.

Yes, in 6 minutes she received 23 messages on a Wednesday night at 8 PM. Here they are:

The Bad and the Ugly (There was No Good)

First Message Facts

Here are a few facts you should know about online dating messages to women.

• Messages with the word “hey” have an 84% chance of being ignored according to OkCupid.
• Men who comment on photos receive 25% fewer messages according to Zoosk.
• Zoosk also found men who tell women they are “beautiful” receive 20% fewer messages.

What these facts show you is that you should put a little effort into your messages.    Never compliment a woman on her looks and it’s best to show a woman you read her profile instead of commenting on her photos.

Final Thoughts

Lisa went through each of the messages and told me not one caught her eye. She didn’t even look at the men’s profiles who wrote her. She deleted all the messages as soon as she read them.

Take note how the messages mentioned NOTHING in her profile.  The messages were simple compliments on her appearance and boring “Hey there” messages. No message made a positive impression on her.

Please remember this; when you email a woman comment about something on her profile and never give her physical compliments or ask boring questions you would ask someone you are sharing an elevator with.

Please leave a comment below because I’d like to hear if you have anything to add about a glimpse into a woman’s inbox.